Is He Cheating On Me

Do you think my husband is cheating on me?

He goes out every day of the week. Mostly nightime only. I will call him & sometimes he answers & others he doesn't. I found out that when he doesn't answer is when he's at the dance. Which he denies. If I call him too much then he will hang up on me or just not answer the phone. He sleeps alot on the living room couch. On the weekends he goes out at Friday or Saturday at maybe 6PM & does not come back till the next day @ like 2,3, or 4PM. I am so tired of all this. I have tried to talk to him. I have asked him why & he doesn't want to talk & why he goes out so much, he just gets mad & leaves again. He is always telling me CLEAN THE HOUSE, do this or do that. I have told him that we have 4 kids & the house can not be spottless 24/7. I work full time & sell AVON also. He never wants to help me clean. I had made dinner in the oven the other day & he said that he didn't want to eat sh** from the oven. So what do you think?

Was he cheating on me?
Hi, I met this great guy through the internet 3 years ago so it's been a long distance relationship everything went well until he decided that one day he needed space 'coz he is not sure if he is ready to settle down. Just the beginning of this year I found out that he has been seeing someone from work and has not told me anything about it. Guess you are wondering how did I find this out? Well, I found out from someone and also I saw emails between the two of them which made my stomach turn. I kept asking him if he is honest with our relationship and he replies "YES and that he LOVES me and there is nothing for me to worry about 'coz there is no one in the picture but me." The hard part is that I fell in love with him for who he is but now seeing the other side of him I don't know if I want to be with him in the future if he is "cheating" behind my back. What should I do? Should I just move on or stay in this relationship even though I may see him different everytime we meet or if we meet don't even know if I want him to be touching me? I need your advice please...

Lunch with my husband's hooker.
A few weeks ago, I invited a hooker out for lunch. We ordered a bottle of wine, shared a veggie burger and chatted about our families, media bias, and men. By the end of the afternoon, we were making drunken jokes about penis envy and premature ejaculation, and then, suddenly, I started weeping. She reached out and comforted me and I sensed an immense empathy. I was surprised at my feelings. Here was this stranger, not my typical girlfriend, and not someone I would normally be out sharing a burger with. We came from different worlds: She had never finished school, I was an Ivy Leaguer. She was forced to learn survival lessons at 16, I had had a pretty charmed childhood. She was a prostitute, I was a homemaker.

But we shared one thing in common. We'd both had sex with my husband -- repeatedly.

The story had begun three days earlier, when I found out my husband had been cheating on me. Mine is pretty much the textbook infidelity story with all the usual ingredients -- his denial, followed by my discovery, followed by suicidal (and homicidal) feelings, followed by rage, more rage, and then lots and lots of hurt. I am at the hurt phase right now, trying desperately to sublimate my feelings into a story, an anecdote, maybe even a cartoon strip.

My husband and I have been married seven years, happily for the most part, but with some rocky patches along the way. When we had a baby, we grew closer. I thought the worst was over and started enjoying the experience of our new little family. And things were better, except that my husband obviously believed that he could relish his main course along with a little something on the side.